8/07/2015

Parashat 49 Portion 143 Dev 22:8-23:25 Yesh 1:16-26 Eph 5:3-14

Haftarah/Ashamalatah

Isa 1:16  “Wash yourselves, make yourselves clean; put away the evil of your doings from before My eyes. Stop doing evil!
Isa 1:17  “Learn to do good! Seek right-ruling, reprove the oppressor, defend the fatherless, plead for the widow.
Isa 1:18  “Come now, and let us reason together,” says יהוה. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
Isa 1:19  “If you submit and obey, you shall eat the good of the land;
Isa 1:20  but if you refuse and rebel, you shall be devoured by the sword,” for the mouth of יהוה has spoken.
Isa 1:21  How the steadfast city has become a whore! I have filled it with right-ruling; righteousness lodged in it, but now murderers.
Isa 1:22  Your silver has become dross, your wine is mixed with water.
Isa 1:23  Your rulers are stubborn, and companions of thieves. Everyone loves bribes, and runs after rewards. They do not defend the fatherless, nor does the cause of the widow reach them.
Isa 1:24  Therefore the Master declares, יהוה of hosts, the Elohim of Yisra’ĕl, “Ah, I shall be eased of My adversaries, and I shall be avenged of My enemies.
Isa 1:25  “And I shall turn My hand against you, and shall refine your dross as with lye, and shall remove all your alloy. (mixture)
Isa 1:26  “And I shall give back your judges as at the first, and your counsellors as at the beginning. After this you shall be called the city of righteousness, a steadfast city.”

Isa 31:6  Turn back to Him from whom the children of Yisra’ĕl have deeply(profoundly) fallen away(become apostate) -  Israel’s apostasy is deeply profound.

 “One of the problems the early Greek and Latin Church fathers had with the Torah is how it connected to everyday life. In their Greek and Roman worldview, the goal was to escape this mundane physical world and ascend to the sublime realm of ideas and philosophy where the soul could be free from the clutches of the fallen universe. In their view of the transcendent G-d it hardly seemed possible that He could be concerned with houses, crops, cloths and even latrines. Somehow the haloed image of Messiah was besmirched by such worldly concerns. They concluded that the true meaning of the Torah(indeed of all Scripture) was embedded in the mystical layer of its meaning, extractable only through allegory.
The very fact that Torah often deals with the most common elements of life shows that YHVH always intended for His truth and nature to be manifested through human lives. Unlike the pagan gods manufactured in the minds and hands of fallen mankind whose “wholly other” character forbade them to have contact with mortals, the Elohim of Yisrael dwells in the midst of His people. He would descend so they might ascend. From the very beginning YHVH intended to reveal Himself to man through Messiah – Immanuel – Elohim with us.”

The conclusion of this matter is that only a very small remnant embraces the truth of YHVH.

Isa 10:20  And in that day it shall be that the remnant of Yisra’ĕl, and those who have escaped of the house of Yaʽaqoḇ, never again lean upon him who defeated them, but shall lean upon יהוה, the Set-apart One of Yisra’ĕl, in truth.
Isa 10:21  A remnant shall return, the remnant of Yaʽaqoḇ, to the Mighty Ěl.
Isa 10:22  For though your people, O Yisra’ĕl, be as the sand of the sea, yet a remnant of them shall return – a decisive end, overflowing with righteousness.
Isa 10:23  For the Master יהוה of hosts is making a complete end, as decided, in the midst of all the earth.
Isa 10:24  Therefore thus said the Master יהוה of hosts, “My people, who dwell in Tsiyon, be not afraid of Ashshur, who beats you with a rod and lifts up his staff against you, in the way of Mitsrayim.
Isa 10:25  “For yet a little while and the displeasure shall be completed, and My displeasure be to their destruction.”

How does this remnant live? – Our Torah portion begins.

Deu 22:8  “When you build a new house, then you shall make a parapet for your roof, so that you do not bring blood-guilt on your house when one falls from it.

“The first instruction given regards the requirement of a parapet, a small guard rail required to be built around the edge of a roof or balcony. In the ancient near east, houses were built with flat roofs which were utilized for various purposes: drying and storing produce, socializing, and sleeping in warm weather. The roof provided a kind of “living room” where guests and family could gather. As such, it was imperative that safety from falling from the roof be provided. A home owner who did not make such a provision was liable for the injury or death of anyone who might fall from his roof. Negligence in such a matter was tantamount to homicide. The Sages ruled that the parapet should be a minimum of 10 hand-breadths tall (30 inches). The law of the parapet is a good illustration of the Torah itself, which when obeyed, functions as a “guard rail” for life in general.”

Deu 22:9  “Do not sow your vineyard with different kinds of seed, lest the yield of the seed which you have sown and the fruit of your vineyard be defiled.
Deu 22:10  “Do not plough with an ox and a donkey together. (Mat 11:29)
Deu 22:11  “Do not put on a garment of different kinds, of wool and linen together.

Drash vs 11 – Wool comes from an animal, linen comes from the earth. Man can take cotton seed and produce linen. Man has no role in bring a sheep that provides wool into the world. We assume that a normal man is not able to bring heaven and earth together. Only Messiah is able to do this, and who Messiah appoints – his priesthood.

“Josephus (Ant. 4.208) offers the suggestion that the prohibition relates to the manner in which those things pertaining to the High Priest were not to be used by the common man. Since the High Priest wears garments woven of wool and linen (e.g., Ex 39:8), these are comparable to that of the anointing oil and incense which was not to be duplicated or used by the common Israelite (cf.Ex 30:22–27). Interestingly, the very next section of our parashah deals with tzitzit, which were traditionally made of white linen threads combined with the dyed woollen thread of teichelet (the blue string). Since these do not constitute a garment, they do not violate the prohibition of mixtures. Yet in combining the two substances, the common Israelite wore something that symbolically connected to the Ephod of the High Priest. Since the purpose of the tzitzit was to remind one of the commandments so as to do them, the combination of wool and linen reinforced the fact that obedience to YHVH required the duties and service of the High Priest. As a kingdom of priests (cf. Ex 19:6), Israel’s life revolved around the Tabernacle/Temple where YHVHs way of atonement was constantly displayed in the priestly service and sacrifices.”

Deu 22:12  “Make tassels on the four corners of the garment with which you cover yourself.

The more detailed instructions for the tzitzit (plural is tzitziyot) are found in Num 15:37f. It is there that the actual term צִיצִת (tzitzit) is found. The word itself describes a “tuft” or “strand” and could be used of a lock of hair (Ezek 8:3) as well as a “tassel” of thread. The cognate word in Assyrian (zizitu) describes the moveable part of a loom.
In our text, the word used is גְּדִלִים (g’dilim) from גָּדִל (gadil) used only here and in 1Ki 7:17 which describes “wreaths of chain work” on the capitals of the courtyard of Solomon’s Temple. Some (like the Kairites) have taken this to be a prescription for how the tzitzit are to be made, i.e., in a twisted or braided fashion. But the word is used in cognate languages of common rope or cords, and most likely simply describes the manner in which strands are combined to form a single cord. The Sages regarded the wrapping of the teichelet (blue thread) and the tying of knots as complying with the words of our text.
The tassels are specifically commanded to be attached to the “four corners of the garment with which you cover yourself.” In ancient times, this was an ordinary outer garment worn all day. In the Middle Ages when such a garment would too quickly identify a Jewish person to persecutors, the tzitzit were attached to a smaller inner garment called a tallit katan (“small tallit”), offering the ability to hide the tzitzit when necessary.
The tassels are to be attached to the “four corners” ( אַרְבַּע כַּנפְוֹת ) or “wings” of the garment. These may have been actual corners, but could also describe scallops along the hem or even “the places at which vertical bands of embroidery met the hems” (Tigay, JPS: Deuteronomy, p. 203). The halachah of the Sages opted for actual corners, requiring that the garment to which tzitzit are attached have clearly distinct corners (cf. Menachot in the Mishnah).
There is nothing in this text nor in Num 15:37f which clearly limits the wearing of tzitzit to men, though this became the rabbinic halachah based upon the ruling that women were exempt from time-bound commandments.
Since the purpose of the tzitzit is that “you man look upon them” (Num 15:39), and since this would only be practical during daylight hours, the Rabbis included the ordinance of tzitzit among the timebound commandments (cf. m.Kiddushin 1.7). But even in their halachah, women were exempted, not prohibited.
Tzitzit are not considered a garment (since if they were, the prohibition of sha’atnez would apply) and thus could not be ruled as a male garment (which would be prohibited for women, cf. Deut 22:5; cf. Sifre §115). Moreover, there are historical examples of leading Sages whose wives and maid servants wore tzitzit (b.Menachot 43a; b.Sukkah 11a; y.Berachot 37a). Based upon the biblical texts themselves, there is nothing to suggest that the commandment of tzitzit applies only to males.”

Deu 22:13  “When any man takes a wife, and shall go in to her, and shall hate her,
Deu 22:14  and shall make abusive charges against her and bring an evil name on her and say, ‘I took this woman, and when I came to her I did not find her a maiden,’
Deu 22:15  then the father and mother of the young woman shall take and bring out the proof of the girl’s maidenhood to the elders of the city at the gate.
Deu 22:16  “And the girl’s father shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man as wife, and he hates her.
Deu 22:17  ‘And see, he has made abusive charges against her, saying, “I did not find your daughter a maiden,” and yet these are the proofs of my daughter’s maidenhood.’ And they shall spread the garment before the elders of the city.
Deu 22:18  “And the elders of that city shall take that man and punish him,
Deu 22:19  and fine him one hundred pieces of silver and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought an evil name on a maiden of Yisra’ĕl. And she is to be his wife, he is not allowed to put her away all his days.
Deu 22:20  “But if the matter is true, that the girl was not found a maiden,
Deu 22:21  then they shall bring out the girl to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done wickedness in Yisra’ĕl, to whore in her father’s house. Thus you shall purge the evil from your midst.
Deu 22:22  “When a man is found lying with a woman married to a husband, then both of them shall die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman. Thus you shall purge the evil from Yisra’ĕl.
Deu 22:23  “When a girl who is a maiden is engaged to a husband, and a man finds her in the city and lies with her,
Deu 22:24  then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city, and shall stone them to death with stones, the girl because she did not cry out in the city, and the man because he has humbled his neighbour’s wife. Thus you shall purge the evil from your midst.
Deu 22:25  “But if a man finds the girl who is engaged in the field, and the man seizes her and lies with her, then only the man who lay with her shall die.
Deu 22:26  “But you shall do no matter to the girl. The girl has no sin worthy of death – for the matter is like a man who rises against his neighbour and kills him –
Deu 22:27  for he found her in the field, and she cried out, the engaged girl, but without anyone to save her.
Deu 22:28  “When a man finds a girl who is a maiden, who is not engaged, and he seizes her and lies with her, and they are found out,
Deu 22:29  then the man who lay with her shall give to the girl’s father fifty pieces of silver, and she is to be his wife because he has humbled her. He is not allowed to put her away all his days.
Deu 22:30  “A man does not take his father’s wife, nor uncover his father’s skirt.

The very fact that these laws are given, shows clearly that YHVH intends sexual relationships to be reserved for committed relationships. The author of Hebrews reiterates this when he wrote: “Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers YHVH will judge” (Heb 13:4). The “marriage bed” (Gk -  he koite) is a euphemism for sexual relations. Regardless of what our current society may say, casual sex where there is no commitment is sinful and contrary to YHVH’s good purposes. Our Torah text makes it clear that YHVH’s intention is that a woman be a virgin when she marries for the first time. For a woman to remain a virgin until she marries means that men must also honor YHVH’s standards.
Bringing an accusation against a wife, charging her with pre-marital unchastity is a serious issue. If the charges are shown to be valid, the penalty is death. However, a false accusation required the husband to be flogged, to pay damages to the woman’s father, and the impossibility of ever bringing similar charges against her in the future (which would result in a valid divorce). The manner in which such accusations are proven false is for the woman’s parents to produce for the elders “evidence of her virginity,” which consisted of a cloth ( שִׂמְלָה , simlah). Simlah is a common noun (found 35x in the Tanach) that describes “garments” in general. In some cases, it may be used of garments reserved for special occasions (cf. Gen 45:22 where the garments Yosef/Joseph gives to his brothers may have been for the occasion of their dining with him). It is very probable that in the ancient near east Semitic cultures, virgins were accustomed to wear clothing that marked them out as unmarried and still under the guardianship of their fathers. In Judges 21:12, 400 virgins are identified among the population of Jabesh-gilead. For a young woman to be so adorned would be allowed only as long as the community in which she lived knew her to be a virgin.
If, however, the charges were proven true, the woman is brought to the entrance of her father’s house and executed. The fact that she comes to her father’s house reinforces the Torah perspective that a father is
responsible for the purity of his daughter until she marries. In the same way that a father had the authority to annul a vow his unmarried daughter had made (Num 30:3f), so he is responsible to guard her from any situation that might result in pre-marital unchastity. In bringing the guilty woman to the entrance of her father’s house, the charge against her also marks the fact that her father was woefully negligent in his duties. This concept, of the father’s duty to guard his daughters, ought to encourage us, even in our modern day, to take seriously the responsibility Elohim has given to fathers.”

Deu 23:1  “No one wounded, crushed or whose member is cut off does enter the assembly of יהוה.
Deu 23:2  “No one of illegitimate birth does enter the assembly of יהוה, even a tenth generation of his does not enter the assembly of יהוה.
Deu 23:3  “An Ammonite or Mo’aḇite does not enter the assembly of יהוה, even a tenth generation of them does not ever enter the assembly of יהוה,
Deu 23:4  because they did not meet you with bread and water on the way when you came out of Mitsrayim, and because they hired against you Bilʽam son of Beʽor from Pethor of Aram Naharayim, to curse you.
Deu 23:5  “But יהוה your Elohim refused to listen to Bilʽam, and יהוה your Elohim turned the curse into a blessing for you, because יהוה your Elohim loves you.
Deu 23:6  “Do not seek their peace nor their good, all your days, forever.

Two types of emasculation occurred in the ancient near east, and are specifically noted in our text. Beyond being a eunuch, self-castration is known to have occurred in the ancient near east as part of certain religious ceremonies. Castration was also a form of punishment among some of the pagan nations. Excluding eunuchs from participation in the “assembly of YHVH” was most likely founded upon its close association with paganism. Moreover, eunuchs would not govern with an eye to the next generation, since they were unable to father children. Such governance could therefore be woefully short-sighted. Likewise, those “ill-begotten or illegitimate” ( מַמְזרֵ , mamzer) are excluded from the governing “assembly of YHVH.”
The exact meaning of mamzer is debated, but there is little evidence that it means children born out of wedlock. The Sages (noting the close proximity of forbidden sexual relationships in the previous context) understand it to refer to children born from incest or adulterous relationships. The Lxx and Targum Jonathan interpret it to mean children born of prostitution. If these suggestions are on the mark, the point of excluding such from the “assembly of YHVH” is that those who govern should be from whole families because their decisions should nurture a society that fosters wholesome and stable homes. The phrase “even in the tenth generation” should most likely be understood as meaning “never.” Ammonites and Moabites are also excluded from the governing

Deu 23:7  “Do not loathe an Eḏomite, for he is your brother. Do not loathe a Mitsrite, because you were a stranger in his land.
Deu 23:8  “The children of the third generation born to them do enter the assembly of יהוה.
Deu 23:9  “When the army goes out against your enemies, then you shall guard yourself from every evil matter.
Deu 23:10  “When there is any man among you who is not clean because of an emission in the night, then he shall go outside the camp. Let him not come into the midst of the camp.
Deu 23:11  “And it shall be, when evening comes, that he bathes with water. And when the sun sets let him come into the midst of the camp.
Deu 23:12  “And you shall have a place outside the camp, where you shall go out,
Deu 23:13  and you shall have a sharp implement among your equipment, and when you sit down outside, you shall dig with it and turn and cover your excrement.
Deu 23:14  “For יהוה your Elohim walks in the midst of your camp, to deliver you and give your enemies over to you. Therefore your camp shall be set-apart, so that He does not see unclean matter among you, and shall turn away from you.
Deu 23:15  “You do not hand over to his master the slave who has escaped from his master to you.
Deu 23:16  “Let him dwell with you in your midst, in the place which he chooses within one of your gates, where it is pleasing to him. Do not oppress him.
Deu 23:17  “None of the daughters of Yisra’ĕl is to be a cult prostitute, nor any of the sons of Yisra’ĕl be a cult prostitute.
Deu 23:18  “Do not bring the gift of a whore or the pay of a dog to the House of יהוה your Elohim for any vowed offering, for both of these are an abomination to יהוה your Elohim.
Deu 23:19  “Do not lend at interest to your brother, interest of silver, interest of food, or interest of whatever is lent at interest.
Deu 23:20  “To a foreigner you lend at interest, but to your brother you do not lend at interest, so that יהוה your Elohim might bless you in all that you put your hand to in the land which you are entering to possess.
Deu 23:21  “When you make a vow to יהוה your Elohim, do not delay to pay it, for יהוה your Elohim is certainly requiring it of you, and it shall be sin in you.
Deu 23:22  “But when you abstain from vowing, it is not sin in you.
Deu 23:23  “That which has gone from your lips you shall guard and do, for you voluntarily vowed to יהוה your Elohim what you have promised with your mouth.
Deu 23:24  “When you come into your neighbour’s vineyard, you shall eat to the satisfaction of your desire, but do not put any in a receptacle of yours.
Deu 23:25  “When you come into your neighbour’s standing grain, you shall pluck the heads with your hand, but do not use a sickle on your neighbour’s standing grain.



Please note these notes are under construction and are subject to correction and are in no way a final authority on any subject


7/30/2015

Parashat 49 Portion 142 Dev 21:10-22:7 Yesh 54:1-10 Gal 3:11-14

 "All the Torah learned in the present world will be vain compared to the Torah of Mashiach." - Kohelet Rabba 11:12

       New Torah Portion - Ki Tetze – When (because) you will go out…. Perhaps the title of this new parashah contains a hidden prophetic message. There will come a time when true believers will “go out” from mainstream manmade religion and the thinking of this world and embrace all of YHVH’s Torah.

Parashat Ki Teitzei, contains 74 commandments, more mitzvoth(commandments) than any other Torah portion. Some of the commandments discussed: the law’s and instructions applicable when taking a second wife; the law of the rebellious son; the obligation to bury the dead without undue delay; the requirement to return a found object; the prohibition against causing pain to any living creature; the prohibition against prostitution; the laws of marriage and divorce; the procedure of the Levirate marriage; and the obligation to eradicate the memory of Amalek.

       1Jn 2:3  And by this we know that we know Him, if we guard His commands.1 Footnote: 1See 3:6.
        1Jn 2:4  The one who says, “I know Him,” and does not guard His commands, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.
1Jn 2:5  But whoever guards His Word, truly the love of Elohim has been perfected1 in him. By this we know that we are in Him.2 Footnotes: 1Gen. 17:1, Ps. 119:1, Mt. 5:48. 2See 3:24.
1Jn 5:3  For this is the love for Elohim, that we guard His commands,1 and His commands are not heavy, Footnote: 1See 5:2, 2 John v. 6, John 14:15.

This does not apply to selected commandments but all the commandments.
Parashat Ki Teitzei has much to say about love and kindness.

Our Torah Portion Begins:
Deu 21:10  “When you go out(Ki Teitzei) to fight against your enemies, and יהוה your Elohim shall give them into your hand, and you shall take them captive,
The Torah plainly tells us that before we can enter the Promised Land, the enemies of Israel will have to be destroyed and some taken captive.

Deu 21:11  and shall see among the captives a woman fair of form,(beautiful in shape) and shall delight( become attached)  in her and take her for your wife,
Deu 21:12  then you shall bring her home to your house, and she shall shave her head and trim (Heb asah or prepare)her nails,
Deu 21:13  and(she) put aside(Heb -vehasira)  the mantle of her captivity, and shall dwell in your house, and mourn her father and her mother a month of days. And after that you shall go in to her, and be her husband, and she shall be your wife.
husband, and she shall be your wife – (Heb and you shall possess her)

Note the use of the hyphil Hebrew verb “soor” “to set aside” the verb is followed by a feminine possessive pronoun indicating that it was the woman herself that was removing her garments. In the previous verse we see from the Hebrew that the woman herself shaved her head and prepared her nails. Perhaps this had something to do with the heathen custom of dying the nails. All these actions were her choice-to get rid of the heathen ways.

The “captor” would then observe her for 30 days to determine whether she truly desired to be his and his alone and was willing to change her ways and become an Israelite.

The thirty days reminds us of the 30 days of the month of “Elul” where we too will prepare ourselves for our Bridegroom and our Messiah will observe us to determine whether we truly desire to be his and his alone.

Deu 21:14  “And it shall be, if you are not pleased with her, then you shall let her go at her desire, but you do not sell her at all for silver. Do not treat her harshly, since you have humbled her.

 “In these verses we see a beautiful picture of an Israeli man(Yahshua) finding a “goy”(gentile) wife and taking her as a bride bringing her into the fold of Israel.” This “Israeli man” fought a battle to be able to redeem this goy (gentile) from her pagan life and through this “Israeli man” this “isha” woman, or potential wife was able to be absorbed into the commonwealth of Israel and become a part of the faith and life of Israel.
Did not our Messiah once say to a “lost” gentile woman “salvation comes from the Jews”? (Yoh/John 4:22)
The Unloved Wife – Read the story of Elkanah and his two wives in the book of 1 Samuel chps 1-2

Deu 21:15  “When(“ki”) a man has two wives, one loved and the other unloved, and they have borne him children,  both the loved and the unloved, and the first-born son is of her who is unloved,
Deu 21:16  then it shall be, on the day he makes his sons to inherit his possessions, he is not allowed to treat the son of the beloved wife as first-born in the face of the son of the unloved, who is truly the first-born.
Deu 21:17  “But he is to acknowledge the son of the unloved wife as the first-born by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the beginning of his strength – the right of the first-born is his.

The issue of Polygyny (a man having more than one wife) is such an emotive and controversial issue, yet the Torah clearly mentions its existence and the laws governing such marital relationships.
Many great men of Elohim were polygynists. Our father Yakov had two wives and two concubines. YHVH never said it was a sin, in fact the 12 gates of the New Yerushalayim are named after the 12 sons of Yakov – Rev21:12

 Western Christian civilization and the church has attempted to force monogamy(one man one wife) on all of society and has greatly succeeded in doing so. Most Christians oppose polygyny as YHVH’s loving way of restoring wholeness to a people, (providing it takes place within the structures of the Torah.) Many believers believe that monogamy is the only biblical option for marriage and that polygyny was and always will be sinful. This is not consistent with scripture.
Perhaps the true state of any society can be measured by how woman and other vulnerable people are treated – this includes widows and orphans and those who are part of both monogamous and polygynous marriages.

This Torah portion (49) commands polygyny in certain circumstances.

Deu 25:5  “When brothers dwell together, and one of them has died, and has no son, the widow of the dead man shall not become a stranger’s outside. Her husband’s brother does go in to her, and shall take her as his wife, and perform the duty of a husband’s brother to her.
Deu 25:6  “And it shall be that the first-born son which she bears does rise up for the name of his dead brother, so that his name is not blotted out of Yisra’ĕl.
Deu 25:7  “But if the man does not desire to take his brother’s wife, then let his brother’s wife go up to the gate to the elders, and say, ‘My husband’s brother refuses to raise up a name to his brother in Yisra’ĕl, he does not agree to perform the duty of my husband’s brother.’
Deu 25:8  “The elders of his city shall then call him and speak to him, and he shall stand and say, ‘I have no desire to take her,’
Deu 25:9  then his brother’s wife shall come to him in the presence of the elders, and remove his sandal from his foot, and shall spit in his face, and answer and say, ‘Thus it is done to the man who does not build up his brother’s house.’
Deu 25:10  “And in Yisra’ĕl his name shall be called, ‘The house of him who had his sandal removed.’

If you are not a Hebrew Torah observant man or don’t fully wish to be, then you don’t have to bother about this commandment.
The sad reality is that this commandment has very seldom been obeyed in the history of YHVH’s people.

Jas 2:10  For whoever shall guard all the Torah, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all.

Deu 28:15  “And it shall be, if you do not obey the voice of יהוה your Elohim, to guard to do all His commands and His laws which I command you today, that all these curses shall come upon you and overtake you:

It is clear that we cannot pick and choose what commandments we wish to obey. We either obey them all or not at all.

Mat 15:3  But He(Yahshua) answering, said to them, “Why do you also transgress the command of Elohim1 because of your tradition? Footnote: 1See Mat. 5:20.

The situation concerning widows and fatherless children today
“The Loomba Foundation released its 274-page-long Global Widows Report 2015, which provides an overview of the deprivation faced by widows and their children worldwide, primary causes of widowhood in developed and developing countries, challenges and proposed practical solutions. The report estimates that the number of widows in the world has gone up by 9% since 2010, and today there are nearly 258.5 million widows around the world, out of which nearly 100 million live in poverty and 81 million have had to face some sort of abuse. During 2010-2015, Middle East & North Africa are estimated to have seen the highest percentage increase of over 24% in the number of widows. In absolute terms, India, with its 46.45 million widows, has become the country with the largest number of widows, displacing China to the #2 spot (44.59 million). Over 38 million, or 14.8%, of widows still live in extreme poverty worldwide where even their basic needs go unmet, though this number has gone down by 22% since 2010. The number of children of widows has gone up by 5.7% in the last five years and today stands at more than half a billion (584.5 million), out of which 1.5 million children die before their fifth birthday.”

What about South Africa?
“According to UNICEF, there are currently 3.9 million orphans in South Africa. Of these, approximately 2 million have been orphaned as a direct result of AIDS, and countless others have been orphaned as an indirect result. Children are the most vulnerable members of society. Without the support of parents, this orphan generation is subject to extreme stigma, exploitation, neglect, disease and a host of other circumstances unseen by any previous generation”
How many Torah observant men or women have reached out to these kinds of people and have made a long term difference to any of their lives?

What does YHVH’s Word say? Sadly religious men tamper with His word and so hinder its full impact.
Jas 1:27  Clean and undefiled religion(Gk -those who ritually clean and undefiled) before the Elohim and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.
Gk word “visit” can also mean to “relieve” this is more than visiting (“Visit” here is the proactive Greek word episkeptomai: to go to see, look out for, relieve).  The word “religion” is added and does not appear in the original text.
 Note “and to keep oneself..” “and” is not part of the original text. This implies that those who take care of widows and orphans are those that keep themselves spiritually undefiled in this world. The Torah teaches that defiled people were not allowed to bring offerings or worship to the temple.

Deu 27:19  ‘Cursed is he who twists the right-ruling of the stranger, the fatherless, and widow.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Amĕn!’

Mal 3:5  “And I shall draw near to you for right-ruling. And I shall be a swift witness against the practisers of witchcraft, and against adulterers, and against them that swear to falsehood, and against those who oppress the wage earner in his wages and widows and the fatherless, and those who turn away a sojourner and do not fear Me,” said יהוה of hosts.

Note those who oppress widows and orphans are categorized with those who practice witchcraft and adultery.

Deu 24:19  “When you reap your harvest in your field, and have forgotten a sheaf in the field, do not go back to get it. Let it be for the stranger, for the fatherless, and for the widow, so that יהוה your Elohim might bless you in all the work of your hands. (The story of Ruth)

Exo 22:22  “Do not afflict any widow or fatherless child.
Exo 22:23  “If you do afflict them at all – if they cry out to Me at all, I shall certainly hear their cry,
Exo 22:24  and My wrath shall burn and I shall slay you with the sword, your wives shall be widows and your children fatherless.

Sadly most believers have all kinds of excuses why they do not help widows, fatherless children and orphans.
One of the popular excuses is that our responsibility is first towards the household of YHVH. This is true, however the captive woman mentioned in this portion is not even an Israelite. This captive woman was given a choice to become part of Israel. How many widows in the world today would be eternally grateful if a kind Hebrew man gave them an opportunity to forsake their pagan ways and to become part of the commonwealth of Israel?
Another excuse many use in the matter of a Levirate marriage (Deut 25:5-10) is that it is not necessary if there are sons, because the sons can grow up and take care of their mother. Who then will teach the sons and prepare them for their future if they no longer have a father?

“A father's responsibilities to his son are outlined in the Talmud, Kiddushin 29a. According to the text, a father is obligated to circumcise his son; to redeem him if he is the firstborn; to teach him Torah; to find him a wife; and to teach him a trade. Talmudic scholars added that a father must also teach his son to swim.”

What will we say to Yahshua one day when we stand before him to be judged?
2Co 5:10  For we all have to appear before the judgment seat of Messiah, in order for each one to receive according to what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.1 Footnote: 1See Mt. 16:27, John 5:29.

Mat 25:34  “Then the Sovereign shall say to those on His right hand, ‘Come, you blessed of My Father, inherit the reign prepared for you from the foundation of the world –
Mat 25:35  for I was hungry and you gave Me food, I was thirsty and you gave Me drink, I was a stranger and you took Me in,
Mat 25:36  was naked and you clothed Me, I was sick and you visited Me, I was in prison and you came to Me.’
Mat 25:37  “Then the righteous shall answer Him, saying, ‘Master, when did we see You hungry and we fed You, or thirsty and gave You to drink?
Mat 25:38  ‘And when did we see You a stranger and took You in, or naked and clothed You?
Mat 25:39  ‘And when did we see You sick, or in prison, and we came to You?’
Mat 25:40  “And the Sovereign shall answer and say to them, ‘Truly, I say to you, in so far as you did it to one of the least of these My brothers, you did it to Me.’
Mat 25:41  “He shall then also say to those on the left hand, ‘Go away from Me, accursed ones, into the everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his messengers –
Mat 25:42  for I was hungry and you gave Me no food, I was thirsty and you gave Me no drink,
Mat 25:43  ‘I was a stranger and you did not take Me in, was naked and you did not clothe Me, sick and in prison and you did not visit Me.’
Mat 25:44  “Then they also shall answer Him, saying, ‘Master, when did we see You hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not serve You?’
Mat 25:45  “Then He shall answer them, saying, ‘Truly, I say to you, in so far as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.’
Mat 25:46  “And these shall go away into everlasting punishment, but the righteous into everlasting life.”

Was Yahshua only talking about those who were of the household of faith? Are not Israel called to be a blessing to all nations? In Gal 6:10 we see that we should strife to do good to all, but yes it doesn't help to do good to others and your own people in the household of the belief are suffering. We should do especially good to them of the household of the belief but not let it stop there.

Gen 22:18  “And in your seed all the nations of the earth shall be blessed, because you have obeyed My voice.”

Gal 3:8  And the Scripture, having foreseen that Elohim would declare right the nations by belief,(noun) announced the Good News to Aḇraham beforehand, saying, “All the nations shall be blessed in you,”

How many of us will be able to stand before Yahshua one day and declare that we are worthy to be part of the bride of Messiah and that we have done all that was expected of us, that we were obedient and generous and that we took care of widows and orphans and that we have not failed in our financial obligations towards YHVH and to those in need?

You say but there is no condemnation for those who are in Messiah. This is true. However there are serious consequences for our ongoing disobedience.
Yahshua came to redeem us from the curse of the Torah. He did not redeem us from continual and persistent unrepentant rebellion against His Word.  (Mat 7:23)

I am not pointing my finger at anyone because I myself stand guilty before YHVH.

If any of us make it, it’s a miracle because it never was or ever will be acceptable to YHVH to disobey any of His commandments.

Mark 10:26 …….“Who then is able to be saved?”
Mar 10:27  And looking at them, יהושע said, “With men it is impossible, but not with Elohim, for