1/29/2016

Parashat 4 Portion 17 Ber/Gen 20:1-18 Yesh/Is 61:1-10 Gal 3:15-29


We remind ourselves once again that one of the important ways YHVH has chosen to reveal His counsel  to us is through the weekly Torah portions. This has been the practice of our Hebrew brothers for millennia.

Heb 1:1  Elohim, having of old spoken in many portions and many ways to the fathers by the prophets,
Heb 1:2  has in these last days spoken to us by the Son, whom He has appointed heir of all, through whom also He made the ages,1 Footnote: 1John 1:3.

The words “many portions” is the Greek word “polumeros” Strongs G4181. This is the only time this word is used in this form in the second writings (New Testament). Was the author aware of the weekly Torah portions as he wrote this letter to a weary Messianic Jewish community that were facing persecution and exclusion from the early Jewish community? I believe he was.

Even the Hebrew version of this verse uses the Hebrew word “mkadem” which implies that YHVH has spoken “in measured ways”

Heb 1:1  האלהים אשר־דבר מקדם פעמים רבות ובפנים שנים אל־אבתינו ביד

We are reminded that Yahshua did not come to change the ancient paths of our forefather’s, he came to give full meaning and understanding to the ancient paths they walked, so that we could follow in their footsteps.

Our Torah Portion:

Gen 20:1  And Aḇraham set out from there to the land of the South, and dwelt between Qaḏĕsh and Shur, and stayed in Gerar.

There is possibly a subtle hint of Avraham’s situation in the meaning of the place names mentioned in the opening verse.

The Hebrew word here for “south” is “Negev.” The Negev is a desert. We assume Avraham found himself in a wilderness situation. He was confronted with a life and death situation. “Qadesh” means “set apart” and “Shur” means “wall.”  We could say Avraham found himself between a rock and a hard place. Sometimes it feels impossible to do the right thing. What is the right thing? To do what is “set apart” no matter what the consequences, even if it alienates you from all your friends and you find yourself all alone. The Hebrew says “vayagar biyagar” means “he dwelt in Gerar”. The Hebrew word “ger” can also means “stranger.”

Gen 20:2  And Aḇraham said concerning Sarah his wife, “She is my sister.” And Aḇimeleḵ sovereign of Gerar sent and took Sarah.

How can we compare the events of this parasha to a modern day context?
Let us attempt to compare “apples with apples” imagine you are working for a boss who has a playboy reputation. He is known to keep several women in his mansion for his pleasure. Your boss informs you that he is about to retrench many of his employees. To save yourself from retrenchment you send your wife to live with him in his mansion to be used for his sexual pleasure. You know this will save your job because you have seen your boss take a keen interest in your wife. To make matters worse your wife is pregnant with your miracle son you have been waiting for, for many years.
This action is utterly despicable. Yet Avraham is called the father of our faith and a friend of YHVH forever – 2 Chron 20:7.
We are strongly reminded here once again that the covenant we have with YHVH does not depend on our faithfulness but on His faithfulness.

This is the second time Abraham commits the same sin. The first time we see in Ber/Gen 12 Abraham lies to Pharaoh about his wife and now he repeats the same lie to Abimelek. What makes this lie even more despicable is that Sarah is possibly now pregnant with the promised son – Yitzchak.
Herein lies a very important spiritual lesson. We have been taught that our faithfulness brings YHVH’s favour into our lives. So we really try to be as faithful as we can. Yet in spite of our faithfulness things don’t always work out the way we would like. This Torah portion teaches us that it is not so much our faithfulness that causes YHVH to act on our behalf. It is YHVH’s favour that causes us to become faithful. In other words we are not able to be who we were meant to be unless YHVH empowers us to be who we were meant to be. Sadly we have all been caught in the trap that says – it is our effort that makes the difference, when in fact it is YHVH who is working in us in order to make the effort that makes the difference.

Php 2:12  So that, my beloved, as you always obeyed – not only in my presence, but now much rather in my absence – work out your own deliverance with fear and trembling,
Php 2:13  for it is Elohim who is working in you1 both to desire and to work for His good pleasure.

“Soteria” Greek word for salvation can also means to rescue and keep safe it can be understood as temporal or eternal salvation and it involves our active participation. The Greek word “katergazesthe” means “making effective” for “work out” is a combination of two words which imply an action that is done to us that produces an effect – the verb used is a passive verb. Through our obedience with fear and trembling YHVH makes His deliverance effective in us. Even the obedience with fear and trembling we experience is His working (operating in us).
Gen 20:3  But Elohim came to Aḇimeleḵ in a dream by night, and said to him, “See, you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man’s wife.”

“Hineh met” lit means “behold you are dead” as it appears in the past tense. This implies that you are as good as dead. To survive he would need a”resurrection from the dead” kind of miracle. It is this realization that causes the king to take such drastic measures in making restitution for his action. The irony of this event is that it appears that Abimelech seems to have more fear and trembling for YHVH than Avraham.

Gen 20:4  However, Aḇimeleḵ had not come near her, and he said, “יהוה, would You slay a righteous nation also?
Gen 20:5  “Did he not say to me, ‘She is my sister’? And she, even she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ In the integrity of my heart and in the innocence of my hands I have done this.”
Gen 20:6  And Elohim said to him in a dream, “Yea, I know that you did this in the integrity of your heart, and so I kept you from sinning against Me. For this reason I did not let you touch her.
Gen 20:7  “And now, return the man’s wife, for he is a prophet, and let him pray for you and you live. But if you do not return her, know that you shall certainly die, you and all that are yours.”

This is the first time mention is made of a prophet. According to the law of first mention a foundational understanding is given of what kind of person a true prophet is.

Gen 20:8  So Aḇimeleḵ rose early in the morning, and called all his servants, and spoke all these words in their hearing. And the men were greatly frightened.
Gen 20:9  And Aḇimeleḵ called Aḇraham and said to him, “What have you done to us? In what have I sinned against you, that you have brought on me and on my reign a great sin? You have done matters to me that should not be done.”
Gen 20:10  And Aḇimeleḵ said to Aḇraham, “What did you have in view, that you have done this matter?”
Gen 20:11  And Aḇraham said, “Only because I said to myself, the fear of Elohim is not in this place, and they shall kill me for the sake of my wife.
Gen 20:12  “And yet, she is truly my sister. She is the daughter of my father, but not the daughter of my mother, and she became my wife.
Gen 20:13  “And it came to be, when Elohim caused me to wander from my father’s house, that I said to her, ‘This is your kindness that you should do for me: in every place, wherever we go, say of me, “He is my brother.” ’ ”
Gen 20:14  Then Aḇimeleḵ took sheep, and cattle, and male and female servants, and gave them to Aḇraham. And he returned Sarah his wife to him.
Gen 20:15  And Aḇimeleḵ said, “See, my land is before you, dwell wherever it is good in your eyes.”
Gen 20:16  And to Sarah he said, “See, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver. See, it is to you a covering of eyes before all who are with you and before all others, and you are cleared before everyone.”
Gen 20:17  And Aḇraham prayed to Elohim, and Elohim healed Aḇimeleḵ, and his wife, and his female servants, so they bore children,
Gen 20:18  for יהוה had closed up all the wombs of the house of Aḇimeleḵ because of Sarah, Aḇraham’s wife.

Midrash: – how do we deal with the failure that comes from making the wrong kind of decisions in life?
The same way Avraham did. Avraham saw the day of Yahshua and was glad.

Joh 8:42  יהושע said to them, “If Elohim were your Father, you would love Me, for I came forth from Elohim, and am here. For I have not come of Myself, but He sent Me.
Joh 8:43  “Why do you not know what I say? Because you are unable to hear My Word.
Joh 8:44  “You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you wish to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has not stood in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks the lie, he speaks of his own, for he is a liar and the father of it.
Joh 8:45  “And because I speak the truth, you do not believe Me.
Joh 8:46  “Who of you proves Me wrong concerning sin? And if I speak the truth, why do you not believe Me?
Joh 8:47  “He who is of Elohim hears the Words of Elohim, therefore you do not hear because you are not of Elohim.”
Joh 8:48  The Yehuḏim answered and said to Him, “Do we not say well that You are a Shomeronite and have a demon?”
Joh 8:49  יהושע answered, “I do not have a demon, but I value My Father, and you do not value Me.
Joh 8:50  “And I do not seek My own esteem, there is One who is seeking and is judging.
Joh 8:51  “Truly, truly, I say to you, if anyone guards My Word he shall never see death at all.”
Joh 8:52  The Yehuḏim said to Him, “Now we know that You have a demon! Aḇraham died, and the prophets. And You say, ‘If anyone guards My Word he shall never taste death at all.’
Joh 8:53  “Are You greater than our father Aḇraham, who died? And the prophets died. Whom do You make Yourself?”
Joh 8:54  יהושע answered, “If I esteem Myself, My esteem is none at all. It is My Father who esteems Me, of whom you say that He is your Elohim.
Joh 8:55  “And you have not known Him, but I know Him. And if I say, ‘I do not know Him,’ I shall be like you, a liar. But I do know Him and I guard His Word.1 Footnote: 1See also 15:10.
Joh 8:56  “Your father Aḇraham was glad that he should see My day, and he saw it and did rejoice.”
Joh 8:57  The Yehuḏim, therefore, said to Him, “You are not yet fifty years old, and have You seen Aḇraham?”
Joh 8:58  יהושע said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, before Aḇraham came to be, I am.”Gk – I exist. We believe Yahshua always existed in bosom of the Father.  
Joh 8:59  Therefore they picked up stones to throw at Him, but יהושע was hidden and went out of the Set-apart Place, going through the midst of them, and so passed by.

In spite of massive personal failure, Avraham looked forward to the day when Yahshua would set all things straight and make a way for us to be right with his Father.
Avraham knew the Son because he knew the Father.

Joh 6:28  So they said to Him, “What should we do to work the works of Elohim?”
Joh 6:29  יהושע answered and said to them, “This is the work of Elohim, that you believe in Him whom He sent.”
Joh 6:30  So they said to Him, “What sign then would You do, so that we see and believe You? What would You do?
Joh 6:31  “Our fathers ate the manna in the wilderness, as it has been written, ‘He gave them bread out of the heaven to eat.’ ”
Joh 6:32  Therefore יהושע said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, Mosheh did not give you the bread out of the heaven, but My Father gives you the true bread out of the heaven.
Joh 6:33  “For the bread of Elohim is He who comes down out of the heaven and gives life to the world.”
Joh 6:34  So they said to Him, “Master, give us this bread always.”
Joh 6:35  And יהושע said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall not get hungry at all, and he who believes in Me shall not get thirsty at all.
Joh 6:36  “But I said to you that you have seen Me, and still do not believe.
Joh 6:37  “All that the Father gives Me shall come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I shall by no means cast out.
Joh 6:38  “Because I have come down out of the heaven, not to do My own desire, but the desire of Him who sent Me.
Joh 6:39  “This is the desire of the Father who sent Me, that all He has given Me I should not lose of it, but should raise it in the last day.
Joh 6:40  “And this is the desire of Him who sent Me, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in Him should possess everlasting life. And I shall raise him up in the last day.”
Joh 6:44  “No one is able to come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him. And I shall raise him up in the last day.
Joh 6:45  “It has been written in the prophets, ‘And they shall all be taught by יהוה.’ Everyone, then, who has heard from the Father, and learned, comes to Me.
Joh 6:46  “Not that anyone has seen the Father, except He who is from Elohim – He has seen the Father.
Joh 6:53  יהושע therefore said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Aḏam and drink His blood, you possess no life in yourselves.
Joh 6:54  “He who eats My flesh and drinks My blood possesses everlasting life, and I shall raise him up in the last day.
Joh 6:55  “For My flesh is truly food, and My blood is truly drink.
Joh 6:56  “He who eats My flesh and drinks My blood stays in Me, and I in him.
Joh 6:57  “As the living Father sent Me, and I live because of the Father, so he who feeds on Me shall live because of Me.
Joh 6:58  “This is the bread which came down out of the heaven, not as your fathers ate the manna and died. He who eats this bread shall live forever.”
Joh 6:64  “But there are some of you who do not believe.” For יהושע knew from the beginning who they were who did not believe, and who would deliver Him up.
Joh 6:65  And He said, “Because of this I have said to you that no one is able to come to Me unless it has been given to him by My Father.”
Joh 6:66  From then on many of His taught ones withdrew and were not walking with Him any more.

Avraham saw this day and rejoiced.


1/22/2016

Parashat 4 Portion 16 -Ber/Gen 19:1-38 Yesh/Is 17:14-18:7 Luke 17:20-37



   Luk 17:20  And having been asked by the Pharisees when the reign of Elohim would come, He answered them and said, “The reign of Elohim does not come with intent watching,
    Luk 17:21  nor shall they say, ‘Look here!’ or ‘Look there!’ For look, the reign of Elohim is in your midst!” (Acts 3:21)
    Luk 17:28  “And likewise, as it came to be in the days of Lot: They were eating, they were drinking, they were buying, they were selling, they were planting, they were building,
    Luk 17:29  but on the day Lot went out of Seḏom it rained fire and sulphur from heaven and destroyed all.
    Luk 17:30  “It shall be the same in the day the Son of Aḏam is revealed.
    Luk 17:31  “In that day, he who shall be on the house-top, and his goods in the house, let him not come down to take them away. And likewise the one who is in the field, let him not turn back.
Luk 17:32  “Remember the wife of Lot.
Luk 17:33  “Whoever seeks to save his life shall lose it, and whoever loses his life shall preserve it.

WARNING TO ALL SEEKERS OF TRUTH!
Pro 14:12  There is a way which seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death1. Footnote: 1See 16:25.

Some famous quotes about deception:

“Almost everyone who is deceived does not realize it.”

“There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact.”

“Just because something isn't a lie does not mean that it isn't deceptive. A liar knows that he is a liar, but one who speaks mere portions of truth in order to deceive is a craftsman of destruction.”

“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.”

“A lie that is half-truth is the darkest of all lies.”

“The truest way to be deceived is to think oneself more knowing than others.”

“A lie's true power cannot be accurately measured by the number of people who believe its deception when it is told, it must be measured by the number of people who will go out after hearing it trying to convince others of its truth.”

“When you can't tell the truth, tell *a* truth.”

“A joke is a good camouflage. Next best comes sentiment... But the best camouflage of all - in my opinion - is the plain and simple truth. Because nobody ever believes it.” 
― Max Frisch

“Deception is the most violent form of brutality, because you destroy yourself on an instalment plan and refuse any interference”

“The deepest gratitude and greatest miracle comes to those who are being delivered from deception.”

One of Yahshua’s talmadim (disciples) said the following:
2Pe 2:1  But there also came to be false prophets1 among the people, as also among you there shall be false teachers, who shall secretly bring in destructive heresies, and deny the Master who bought them, bringing swift destruction on themselves. Footnote: 1See Mt. 7:15-23 v. 7-8, and again v. 21. (1Co 2:2  For I resolved not to know any matter among you except יהושע Messiah and Him impaled.)
2Pe 2:2  And many shall follow their destructive ways, because of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of,
2Pe 2:3  and in greed, with fabricated words, they shall use you for gain. From of old their judgment does not linger, and their destruction does not slumber.
2Pe 2:4  For if Elohim did not spare the messengers who sinned, but sent them to Tartaros* and delivered them into chains of darkness, to be kept for judgment,
2Pe 2:5  and did not spare the world of old, but preserved Noaḥ, a proclaimer of righteousness, and seven others, bringing in the flood on the world of the wicked,
2Pe 2:6  and having reduced to ashes the cities of Seḏom and Amorah condemned them to destruction – having made them an example to those who afterward would live wickedly,
2Pe 2:7  and rescued righteous Lot, who was oppressed with the indecent behaviour of the lawless1 Footnote: 1The Greek word here, and in 3:17, is athesmos (not the usual one, anomos) but it also means “lawless.”
2Pe 2:8  (for day after day that righteous man, dwelling among them, tortured his righteous being by seeing and hearing their lawless works),
2Pe 2:9  then יהוה knows how to rescue the reverent ones from trial and to keep the unrighteous unto the day of judgment, to be punished,
2Pe 2:10  and most of all those walking after the flesh in filthy lust and despising authority – bold, headstrong, speaking evil of esteemed ones,
2Pe 2:11  whereas messengers who are greater in strength and power do not bring a slanderous accusation against them before the Master.

*Tartarus is only known in Hellenistic Jewish literature from the Greek text of 1 Enoch, dated to 400–200 BC. This states that God placed the archangel Uriel "in charge of the world and of Tartarus" (20:2). Tartarus is generally understood to be the place where 200 fallen Watchers (angels) are imprisoned

2Pe 2:17  These are fountains without water, clouds driven by a storm, to whom the blackest darkness is kept forever.
2Pe 2:18  For speaking arrogant nonsense, they entice – through the lusts of the flesh, through indecencies – the ones who have indeed escaped from those living in delusion,
2Pe 2:19  promising them freedom, though themselves being slaves of corruption – for one is a slave to whatever overcomes him.
2Pe 2:20  For if, after they have escaped the defilements of the world through the knowledge of the Master and Saviour יהושע Messiah, they are again entangled in them and overcome, the latter end is worse for them than the first.
2Pe 2:21  For it would have been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than having known it, to turn from the set-apart command1 delivered unto them. Footnote: 1The singular “command” often means “commands” – see 1 Tim. 6:14, Dt. 17:20, Ps. 19:8.
2Pe 2:22  For them the proverb has proved true, “A dog returns to his own vomit,” and, “A washed sow returns to her rolling in the mud.”

 Our Torah Portion:

Gen 19:1  And the two messengers came to Seḏom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gate of Seḏom. And when Lot saw them, he rose up to meet them, and he bowed himself with his face toward the ground,

Lot was most probably one of the elders of the city. He was sitting at the gate. Perhaps one of the worst forms of deception is to think you can do good when in fact you shouldn’t even be where you are or doing what you are doing.
Sometimes you just need to leave a situation or place because it will suck you in and spit you out, bringing great harm and loss to your life.

Gen 19:2  and he said, “Look, please my masters, please turn in to your servant’s house and spend the night, and wash your feet, and rise early and go your way.” And they said, “No, but let us spend the night in the open square.”
Gen 19:3  But he urged them strongly, and they turned in to him and came into his house. And he made them a feast, and baked unleavened bread, and they ate.

The sages tell us that Lot prepared a feast and baked unleavened bread (matzos) as they believe it was the 15 th of Aviv – Passover. There are some similarities between the exodus of the Yisraelites and the exodus of Lot and his family – midrash about the pattern to leave ….

Gen 19:4  Before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Seḏom, both old and young, all the people from every part, surrounded the house.
Gen 19:5  And they called to Lot and said to him, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, and let us ‘know’ them.”
Gen 19:6  So Lot went out to them through the doorway, and shut the door behind him,
Gen 19:7  and said, “Please, my brothers, do not do evil!
Gen 19:8  “Look, please, I have two daughters who have not known a man. Please, let me bring them out to you, and do to them as you wish, only do no deed to these men, because they have come under the shadow of my roof.”
Gen 19:9  But they said, “Stand back!” And they said, “This one came in to sojourn, and should he always judge? Now we are going to treat you worse than them.” So they pressed hard against the man Lot, and came near to break down the door.
Gen 19:10  But the men reached out their hands and pulled Lot into the house with them, and shut the door.
Gen 19:11  Then they struck the men who were at the doorway of the house with blindness, both small and great, and they wearied themselves to find the door.
Gen 19:12  And the men said to Lot, “Have you anyone else here? A son-in-law, and your sons, and your daughters, and whomever you have in the city – bring them out of this place!
Gen 19:13  “For we are going to destroy this place, because the cry against them has grown great before the face of יהוה, and יהוה has sent us to destroy it.”
Gen 19:14  And Lot went out and spoke to his sons-in-law, who had married his daughters, and said, “Get up, get out of this place, for יהוה is going to destroy this city!” But to his sons-in-law he seemed to be as one joking.
Gen 19:15  And when morning dawned, the messengers urged Lot to hurry, saying, “Get up, take your wife and your two daughters who are here, lest you be consumed in the punishment of the city.”
Gen 19:16  And while he loitered, the men took hold of his hand, and his wife’s hand, and the hands of his two daughters, יהוה having compassion on him, and they brought him out and set him outside the city.
Gen 19:17  And it came to be, when they had brought them outside, that he said, “Escape for your life! Do not look behind you nor stay anywhere in the plain. Escape to the mountains, lest you be consumed.”
Gen 19:18  And Lot said to them, “Oh no, יהוה!
Gen 19:19  “Look, please, your servant has found favour in your eyes, and you have increased your kindness which you have shown me by saving my life, but I am unable to escape to the mountains, lest calamity overtake me and I die.
Gen 19:20  “Look, please, this city is near enough to flee to, and it is small. Please let me escape there – is it not a small matter – and let my life be saved?”
Gen 19:21  And He said to him, “Look, I have favoured you concerning this matter also, without overthrowing this city for which you have spoken.
Gen 19:22  “Hurry, escape there. For I am not able to do any deed until you arrive there.” So the name of the city was called Tsoʽar.
Gen 19:23  The sun had risen upon the earth when Lot entered Tsoʽar.
Gen 19:24  And יהוה rained sulphur and fire on Seḏom and Amorah, from יהוה out of the heavens.
Gen 19:25  So He overthrew those cities, and all the plain, and all the inhabitants of the cities, and what grew on the ground.
Gen 19:26  But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a post of salt.

It is difficult to leave …sometimes impossible to leave – you can be so embedded into a wrong belief system that it becomes more and more difficult to leave and move on.

Gen 19:27  And Aḇraham arose early in the morning and went to the place where he had stood before יהוה,
Gen 19:28  and he looked toward Seḏom and Amorah, and toward all the land of the plain. And he looked and saw the smoke of the land which went up like the smoke of a furnace.
Gen 19:29  Thus it came to be, when Elohim destroyed the cities of the plain, that Elohim remembered Aḇraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow, when He overthrew the cities in which Lot had dwelt.
Gen 19:30  And Lot went up out of Tsoʽar and dwelt in the mountains, and his two daughters were with him, for he was afraid to dwell in Tsoʽar. And he and his two daughters dwelt in a cave.

We notice that the Torah repeats certain information in this parasha. This is to perhaps remind us that these events have some kind of fulfilment for a future time.

Gen 19:31  And the first-born said to the younger, “Our father is old, and there is no man on the earth to come in to us, as is the way of all the earth.
Gen 19:32  “Come, let us make our father drink wine and lie with him, so that we preserve the seed of our father.”
Gen 19:33  So they made their father drink wine that night. And the first-born went in and lay with her father, and he was not aware of it when she lay down or when she arose.

The word “arose” or uvkumeah” has a dot over it – Strongs 6965 can also mean to arise and become powerful. It may imply that when Lots daughter had intercourse with her drunk father and received his seed, she got up with a feeling of self empowerment. We find evidence of this in her naming of her child “Moav” or “From my father” Lots daughter was not even trying to be discreet about the incest she had committed with her father – a sign of arrogance.

1/15/2016

Parashat 4 Portion 15 Vayira – and He appeared – Ber/Gen 18:1-33 Yesh/Is 33:17-34:12 Luke 8:40-56


TRUE FRIENDS
"There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship."~ Saint Thomas Aquinas

OUR FRIENDSHIP
"Friendship without self-interest is one of the rare and beautiful things in life."James Francis Byrnes

"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life."
-Lee Iacocca

      Isa 41:8  “But you, Yisra’ĕl, are My servant, Ya’aqoḇ, whom I have chosen, the descendants of Aḇraham My friend,

2Ch 20:7  “Are You not our Elohim? You have driven out the inhabitants of this land before Your people Yisra’ĕl, and gave it to the seed of Aḇraham Your friend forever.

Yahshua who came to elevate the Torah and all those who cling to the Torah said:

Joh 15:10  “If you guard My commands, you shall stay in My love,1 even as I have guarded My Father’s commands and stay in His love. Footnote: 1See 14:15.
Joh 15:11  “These words I have spoken to you, so that My joy might be in you, and that your joy might be complete.
Joh 15:12  “This is My command, that you love one another, as I have loved you.1 Footnote: 1See 13:34, 15:17.
Joh 15:13  “No one has greater love than this: that one should lay down his life for his friends.
Joh 15:14  “You are My friends if you do whatever I command you.
Joh 15:15  “No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing. But I have called you friends, for all teachings which I heard from My Father I have made known to you.
Joh 15:16  “You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in My Name He might give you.
Joh 15:17  “These words I command you, so that you love one another.1 Footnote: 1See 13:34, 15:12.
Joh 15:18  “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.
Joh 15:19  “If you were of the world, the world would love its own. But because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, for that reason the world hates you.

You cannot legislate love or friendship. Speaking of love Shaul says there is no Torah.

Gal 5:22  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, trustworthiness,
Gal 5:23  gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no Torah.

The best way to learn about love and friendship is to observe and follow those who appear to have these qualities.

Rom 4:12 says we are to walk in the steps of our father Avraham.

Heb 6:12  ….. but imitate those who through belief and patience inherit the promises.
Heb 6:13  For Elohim, having promised Aḇraham, since He could swear by no one greater, swore by Himself,
Heb 6:14  saying, “Truly, blessing I shall bless you, and increasing I shall increase you.”
Heb 6:15  And so, after being patient, he obtained the promise.

Heb 12:1  We too, then, having so great a cloud of witnesses all around us, let us lay aside every weight and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race set before us,
Heb 12:2  looking to the Princely Leader and Perfecter of our belief, יהושע, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the stake, having despised the shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of Elohim.

Our Torah Portion:

Gen 18:1  And יהוה appeared to him by the terebinth trees of Mamrĕ, while he was sitting in the tent door in the heat of the day.

This is the beginning of a  new Torah portion – “Vayira” which means “and he appeared.”
“Va Yerah” is a Niphal verb ie a passive verb, meaning that YHVH  allowed Himself to be seen by Avraham.

Terebinth tree comes from a Hebrew word that can mean strength. It is also known as an oak tree. Terebinth trees were a place where one met with YHVH. Mamre comes from a Hebrew word that can mean fatness or abundance. The Terebinth tree was also a place where YHVH imparted instruction and teaching – see also “Terebinth of Moreh”

Gen 12:6  And Aḇram passed through the land to the place of Sheḵem, as far as the terebinth tree of Moreh. At that time the Kena’anites were in the land.
Gen 12:7  And יהוה appeared to Aḇram and said, “To your seed I give this land.” And he built there an altar to יהוה, who had appeared to him.
Gen 13:18  So Aḇram moved his tent, and went and dwelt by the terebinth trees of Mamrĕ, which are in Ḥeḇron, and built an altar there to יהוה.

Terebinth trees represent a place where one encountered YHVH.

Have you found your Terebinth tree? -  a place where you feel you belong – where YHVH has met with you – a place that you would not have found if YHVH did not radically change the circumstance of your life – if you had not become a Hebrew and crossed over from man- made religion, you would not have found your Terebinth tree - A place where the Torah begins to make sense – where you become to embrace Torah more and more as if it was your very life.

The wood from these Terebinth trees was used to make yokes.
Matthew 11:28-30The Message (MSG) 28-30 “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”
Mat 11:29  “Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am meek and humble in heart, and you shall find rest for your beings.1 Footnote: 1Jer. 6:16.
Mat 11:30  “For My yoke is gentle and My burden is light.”

The “yoke” was rabbinically known as the burden of the Torah.

Gen 18:2  So he lifted his eyes and looked, and saw three men standing opposite him. And when he saw them, he ran from the tent door to meet them, and bowed himself to the ground,
Gen 18:3  and said, “יהוה, if I have now found favour in Your eyes, please do not pass Your servant by.
Gen 18:4  “Please let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree.
Gen 18:5  “And let me bring a piece of bread and refresh your hearts, and then go on, for this is why you have come to your servant.” And they said, “Do as you have said.”
Gen 18:6  So Aḇraham ran into the tent to Sarah and said, “Hurry, make ready three measures of fine flour, knead it and make cakes.”
Gen 18:7  And Aḇraham ran to the herd, took a tender and good calf, gave it to a young man, and he hurried to prepare it.
Gen 18:8  And he took curds and milk and the calf which he had prepared, and set it before them, and he stood by them under the tree as they ate.

Midrash on what your response would be if YHVH sent His Messenger to you?

Note- Avram was not focusing on his own needs or requests. Yahshua describes this as the essence of increasing our faith.

Luk 17:5  And the emissaries said to the Master, “Give us more belief.”
Luk 17:6  And the Master said, “If you have belief as a mustard seed, you would say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be pulled up by the roots and be planted in the sea,’ and it would obey you.
Luk 17:7  “But who of you, having a servant ploughing or shepherding, would say to him when he has come in from the field, ‘Come immediately and sit down to eat’?
Luk 17:8  “But would he not rather say to him, ‘Prepare somewhat for my supper, and gird yourself and serve me while I eat and drink, and afterward you shall eat and drink’?
Luk 17:9  “Would he thank that servant because he did what he was commanded? I think not.
Luk 17:10  “So also you, when you have done all that you were commanded, say, ‘We are unworthy servants, we have done what was our duty to do.’ ”

Gen 18:9  And they said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “See, in the tent.”

ט  וַיֹּאמְרוּ אֵלָיו, אַיֵּה שָׂרָה אִשְׁתֶּךָ; וַיֹּאמֶר, הִנֵּה בָאֹהֶל.

“and they said to him” “va yomer elaiv eiya sara ishtecha” Over the word “elaiv” are three “yuts’ over the letter “aleph”; “yud” and “vav” these three letters spell “eiyav” meaning “where is he.”
Is this possibly a veiled question as to when would the Messiah be coming?

Gen 18:10  And He said, “I shall certainly return to you according to the time of life, and see, Sarah your wife is to have a son!” And Sarah was listening in the tent door which was behind him.
Gen 18:11  Now Aḇraham and Sarah were old, well advanced in age, and Sarah was past the way of women.
Gen 18:12  And Sarah laughed within herself, saying, “After I have grown old, shall I have pleasure, my master being old too?”
Gen 18:13  And יהוה said to Aḇraham, “Why did Sarah laugh, saying, ‘Shall I truly have a child, since I am old?’
Gen 18:14  “Is any matter too hard for יהוה? At the appointed time I am going to return to you, according to the time of life, and Sarah is to have a son.”
Gen 18:15  But Sarah denied it, saying, “I did not laugh,” for she was afraid. And He said, “No, but you did laugh!”
Gen 18:16  And the men rose up from there and looked toward Seḏom, and Aḇraham went with them to send them away.
Gen 18:17  And יהוה said, “Shall I hide from Aḇraham what I am doing,
Gen 18:18  since Aḇraham is certainly going to become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him?
Gen 18:19  “For I have known him, so that he commands his children and his household after him, to guard the way of יהוה, to do righteousness and right-ruling, so that יהוה brings to Aḇraham what He has spoken to him.”
Gen 18:20  And יהוה said, “Because the outcry against Seḏom and Amorah is great, and because their sin is very heavy,
Gen 18:21  “I am going down now to see whether they have done altogether according to the outcry against it that has come to Me, and if not, I know.”
Gen 18:22  So the men turned away from there and went toward Seḏom, but יהוה still stood before Aḇraham.
Gen 18:23  And Aḇraham drew near and said, “Would You also destroy the righteous with the wrong?
Gen 18:24  “Suppose there are fifty righteous within the city, would You also destroy the place and not spare it for the fifty righteous that were in it?
Gen 18:25  “Far be it from You to act in this way, to slay the righteous with the wrong, so that the righteous should be as the wrong. Far be it from You! Does the Judge of all the earth not do right?”
Gen 18:26  And יהוה said, “If I find in Seḏom fifty righteous within the city, then I shall spare all the place for their sakes.”
Gen 18:27  And Aḇraham answered and said, “Look, please, I who am but dust and ashes have taken it upon myself to speak to יהוה,
Gen 18:28  “Suppose there are five less than the fifty righteous, would You destroy all of the city for lack of five?” And He said, “If I find there forty-five, I do not destroy it.”
Gen 18:29  And he spoke to Him yet again and said, “Suppose there are found forty?” And He said, “I would not do it for the sake of forty.”
Gen 18:30  And he said, “Let not יהוה be displeased, and let me speak: Suppose there are found thirty?” And He said, “I would not do it if I find thirty there.”
Gen 18:31  And he said, “Look, please, I have taken it upon myself to speak to יהוה: Suppose there are found twenty?” And He said, “I would not destroy it for the sake of twenty.”
Gen 18:32  And he said, “Let not יהוה be displeased, and let me speak only this time: Suppose there are found ten?” And He said, “I would not destroy it for the sake of ten.”
Gen 18:33  Then יהוה went away as soon as He had ended speaking to Aḇraham. And Aḇraham returned to his place.

Possibly this refers to a very small remnant that will truly exercise faith when Yahshua returns.

Luk 18:8  “ But when the Son of Aḏam comes, shall He find the belief on the earth?”


Midrash on events and people in scripture who demonstrated great faith:

We need to remind ourselves that these events were unscripted, they were spontaneous responses.

1. Matthew 15:21-28 NASB - The Syrophoenician Woman ...

2. Luke 7:1-10 - The Faith of the Centurion.

3. Ber/Gen 24:11-20 Rivkah and Eliezer at the well.